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Unlocking your charisma in 2024
Use your face to reach success
Your face is telling a story.
You might think you know what it is.
But most people have no clue what their face is doing.
Is your face secretly sabotaging your success?
Here I will give you the method you need to train your face!

First impressions
"You need as little as 30 to 40 milliseconds of exposure to a face to form an impression of it." -A. Todorov
Your face always communicates and before you utter a word, people have already formed an impression of you.
The face is the nr 1 neglected aspect of a personal brand.

Voice training class event
The voice is along with the face one of the top skills to learn communication and charismatic expression.
To learn voice skills directly with me - join the weekly voice training class TODAY on Tuesday 22nd 19:00 - 20:30 CEST by clicking the button below.
The event will be free, but there are only a limited amount of tickets so sign up now!
How to train the face
“He whose face gives no light, shall never become a star.”
Your face is the primary tool to radiate your inner creative vision to the world.
Through the face others can read the very depth of your soul.
But it needs to be trained to fully express who you are.
My teacher Jeff has given me 3 tools to train the face:
1) Face brushing - Move your face around in all possible directions
2) Facial flex - Particular directions like "top down, bottom up", "top left, bottom right"
3) Show emotions with the face - pick a random emotion and show it.

Telling stories with emotion
In my theater classes I like to work with emotions.
Students tell improvised stories with different emotions called out to tell the story with.
This requires expressing the emotion with the face.
You can do this at home and record your voice - how emotional does it sound?
Using the face to change your voice
"The face is the remote control for your voice"
- Vinh Giang, STAGE Academy
Our voice, face and body form what acting trainer John Sudol calls the Emotional triad.
What we do with our face and body effects the voice.
Check out this short clip with Vinh Giang explaining the connection!
Which emotions?
What emotions should you focus on?
Psychologist and face researcher Dr Paul Ekman found that there are 7 basic emotions:
• Happiness
• Sadness
• Anger
• Fear
• Surprise
• Disgust
• Contempt
If you can master expressing these with your face you have come a long way!

The types of facial expressions
Dr Ekman also found 3 types of facial expressions
Macro - these are the regular kind of facial expression
Micro - lasts a fraction of a second and can reveal true emotion
Subtle - often in one region of the face, may occur when a person is trying to conceal a strong emotion
Getting in to emotional alignment
Emotional alignment is what face expert John Sudol calls the relationship between what a person feels and what they actually express on the outside.
The goal of face training is to reach emotional alignment. This is where you can truly be authentic and express yourself fully.
Check out his book for more details!

Choosing to smile
Remember that you can always choose to smile - this is the best way to use your face!
My mentor Dr Barry Morguelan is teaching me that at every moment we can choose our emotions. So pick good ones that you want to share with others.

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If you are like most people - you were never taught HOW TO SPEAK.
We are taught WHAT to say. For effective communication this is just not enough. You need something more.
My teachers gave me 7 key principles that instantly makes you sound better - so what are they? 👇
— Egil Nord (@InnerFireWriter)
1:47 PM • Oct 10, 2024
To learn voice skills directly with me - join the weekly voice training class TODAY on Tuesday 22nd 19:00 - 20:30 CEST by clicking the button below.
The event will be free, but there are only a limited amount of tickets so sign up now!
Find your freedom,
In strength
/Egil